Self-Directed Masterclass:
Feedback Without Fear: Say What You Mean Without Being Misunderstood
Learn to share your perspective, voice your needs, and deliver critiques so you are instantly understood by every personality type - with more confidence and less worry.
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Does this sound like your internal monologue?
“I’m thorough when I explain things. Why don’t people get it?”
“I’m coming from a good place. Why do others think I’m too critical or direct?”
“I don’t want to hurt others’ feelings or bother them.”
"I keep things positive because I don't want to be the problem. Then nobody hears the actual issue.
“Feedback and sharing my thoughts and details draining . But it means others find me curt."
“I’m told I’m overly analytic and lacking compassion (OR too emotional). I need to find a balance.”
"I'll just fix it myself before I say anything. Asking feels like admitting I couldn't handle it."
“I go into a spiral when I get feedback, or even anticipate it.”
“I get defensive, especially if I don’t like the feedback or am unprepared.”
"What do I need to KNOW and DO to make feedback EASIER and BETTER!"
This isn't a personality flaw. It's a unconscious pattern.
You see the world through a specific lens that others do not share.
Once you unlock the strategy to adjust your unique pattern, you will give feedback with zero fear and absolute clarity.
Why Generic Feedback Advice Fails You
Most people struggle with communication because they ignore personality dynamics.
You have likely tried generic communication templates that worked for your colleagues, friends, or partners. When they didn't work, you felt disappointed. Frustrated. Even resentful because they worked for others.
They didn't work for you because they weren't built for your personality.
And you deserve better than to play whack-a-mole.
✨ The Transformation: Shift From Friction to Ease
You are not here to struggle through uncomfortable conversations. You are here to:
- Feel completely calm in your body and mind before a tough conversation.
- Say exactly what you mean without watering down your point.
- Get people to take immediate action on your words without resentment.
- Hear others say: "Thanks for the great feedback. You make this look easy."
- Walk away thinking: "Wow, that actually went incredibly well."
Which is why I created THIS Masterclass...
The Masterclass:
Feedback without Fear
A 2-hour, self-directed course so you say what you mean without being misunderstood
This isn't inspiration or a course you won't finish. It's a step by step method to tell you the hidden ways your Enneagram personality type shapes how you give and receive feedback - and what to adjust to be effective.
Through bite-sized videos you learn what about your personality works in conversations, what gets in the way, and how to adjust so people actually hear you. Ultimately, you feel less stressed, and more confident, about the conversation.
You can jump directly to your specific Enneagram type and strategies within each module.
Unparalleled wisdom in the Enneagram Personality assessment
We use the Enneagram because it enables you to transcend default defensive reactions, choose healthier ways of interacting, and build deep psychological safety in every room you enter.
The Enneagram is a map of 9 personality types. Unlike traditional assessments that merely describe what you do, the Enneagram reveals why you do it by mapping the nine distinct core motivations, fears, and worldviews that unconsciously drive human behavior. And then what to do to grow.
It is globally trusted by top brands and professional coaches because it acts as an intelligent roadmap for communication, emotional regulation, and stress management.
Don't know your Enneagram type? It's ok. I'll send you a link once you're inside. It takes 20 minutes.
What Your Next Conversation Looks Like...
Calm. Relief. Effective.
- With Direct Reports: You give the critique you’ve avoided for months. They appreciate it, fix the issue, and respect your transparency. You get hours and energy back because you're no longer walking on egg shells or stressing.
- With Peers: You call out where you need them to provide more support. You breathe a sigh of relief because you're not hinting or apologizing or steamrolling.
- With Your Boss: You state why you are ready for a promotion in four clear sentences instead of the twenty you used to nervously rehearse. You're proud of yourself.
- When Criticized: You calmly listen to a colleague call out your mistake. You don't defend or disappear; you simply ask how to optimize it next time.
- In Relationships: You stop saying "I'm fine" or joking your way through tension. You voice your actual needs and let others manage their own emotions.
What's Inside
Everything you need to know to say "I can do this" and have others say "Thanks, I'll make that change."
🗺️ Part 1: "What"
- The Enneagram feedback blueprint: A streamlined introduction to what this tool reveals about human interaction that other assessments miss.
- The 9 personality lenses: A breakdown of what each type focuses on, what they ignore, and how that impacts whether others understand you, or not.
So you know hidden lens you and your peers are communicating through, eliminating confusion before a conversation even begins.
⚖️ Part 2: "So what"
- The impact: How your personality positively and negatively impacts your communication comfort.
- Uncovering blind spots: Why you naturally avoid feedback or come on too strong.
- The receiving reflex: How you actually react to critique (even if you think you are open to it).
So you continue leveraging your natural communication strengths, and preemptively adjust your blind spots before they cause unnecessary workplace friction or misunderstandings.
🚀 Part 3: "Now what"
- Type-specific feedback strategies: 2 to 3 tailored action steps for your exact personality to make communication feel effortless.
- The communication upgrade: A system that doesn’t change who you are, just how you connect.
- The Framework: Jacqueline’s proven system to package your message so it is heard, appreciated, and acted on.
So you know exactly what to do for your unique personality to be effective, have your feedback actioned, and be comfortable - not playing whack-a-mole with strategies.
🛠️ Part 4: "How"
- Real-world application: Guided coaching and live examples to apply these tools to your current daily life.
- In-the-moment tools: What to do when a conversation throws you off guard so you don't default to old habits.
So you can anchor these strategies into your body and mind, giving you the confidence to stay completely calm, manage real-time tension, and execute flawless communication right in the moment.
Why This Course: Get Out of the Box You Were Put In
Most Enneagram resources stop at the description. They tell you what your behaviors are and leave you to figure out the changes on your own.
As a coach certified by Integrative Enneagram Solutions (iEQ9), I:
- Remove your guessing game of "why is this happening to me?" and I" have no idea what to do!"
- Rreplace it with "I know where the friction is", and
- Equip you with the 2-3 strategies unique to your Enneagram type to avoid the problems all together or fix them in the moment
- Get you saying "Wow, that interaction was easy. They're listening to me. I'm less frustrated. They're less frustrated. We're all happy."
Which feedback situation are you dreading? And that you want to make easier?
Let's get get you calm for the conversation. And prepared to be understood.
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Success Stories...
“I feel READY. Now, I CAN have conversations about feedback and even asking for more help, without worrying so much about offending others or bothering them.
After doing this work I am more confident people will understand me AND I see a difference in how colleagues respond to me every day."
Doro P.
“I now know that I need to share more of my thinking and processes and feedback with others because my Enneagram type was coming across as rude and arrogant because I was unintentionally withholding information.
My relationships have already improved dramatically and I enjoy them more too."
Nichole B.
Hi, I'm your Coach, Jacqueline
Founder, Soar Coaching & Consulting
Certified Enneagram Coach - Level 2, iEQ9
Former Corporate Leader (Deloitte)
Creator, Power of the Ask Method
Mom & Wife
As a Coach, my passion, profession, and zone of genius is equipping individuals (in and out of the workforce) and teams with incredible self-awareness, direction, confidence, and communication skills to more easily navigate their life and relationships, and achieve their deepest desires.
The systems and courses I've created and share with you are based on my experience making my life 10x easier and more enjoyable!
And they put fundamental rights BACK in people's hands — to know who they are and what they desire, and then go after and get it by confidently speaking up about their value, ideas, and needs.
Using tools like the Integrative Enneagram personality assessment, my proprietary Power of the Ask framework, and 16 years of experience in the corporate and start-up world I create long-term transformation not just by "fixing" people's issues, but by TEACHING others how to UNDERSTAND themselves, REWIRE their mindset, and use my REPEATABLE STRATEGIES to COACH THEMSELVES through any situation - thus making their lives happier and easier.
Individuals and teams at companies like Salesforce, Google, Google Ventures, Qualtrics, First Republic Bank, Drift, and Duckhorn Vineyards (to name a few) plus many individuals NOT in the workforce look to me to guide them to be unstoppable in pursuit of their goals, more ease, and more enjoyment.
Ready to be more effective AND comfortable when giving and receiving feedback?
So you're heard, understood, comfortable, AND people action what you say?
Every day you hold back your perspective, water down your ideas to keep the peace, or steamroll because you're frustrated, you pay a tax in anxiety, stalled projects, and missed opportunities.
