Unlock your promotion, raise, respect and relief with
Power of the Ask Framework
Go from overlooked and exhausted to a recognized, rewarded leader - without burning out or becoming someone you’re not.
In this this self-directed, 4-module course you'll learn how to ask for what you want, negotiate, and lead with confidence using a 4 step process. No more waiting, wishing, over explaining - or avoiding the conversations that could change your success and sanity.
Companies pay $6,000 for this exact framework and coaching.
What changes after using Power of the Ask framework
After working through the 4 modules, using the script you create, and building your confidence and worth, you’ll be able to:
- Ask for a raise, promotion, and new opportunity - without rehearsing for days or backing down in the moment
- Say no (without guilt) and protect time for what actually moves your career forward - and is enjoyable
- Speak up in meetings with senior leaders, clients, direct reports, and stakeholders - without losing sleep over what to say or how you came across
- Have hard conversations without apologizing your way through
- Stop over‑explaining and over‑working to “prove” your value - and start being recognized and rewarded for it
Trusted by women at...
"As a new COO and working mom, I can finally "do it all" without "doing it all" because I'm delegating without guilt."
- Doro, COO @ Headline Ventures + Mom
"I got the promotion I wanted, shaped my new role to fit my skills and passions, negotiated moving from Northern California to Florida to pursue my part time MBA and be near my family.
AND continued being paid my California salary in Florida.”
- Tamaray,
Sr. Enterprise Solutions Manager @ Komodo Health
"I now actually advocate for what I need to have a career and motherhood.
My confidence has risen and I'm actioning my higher goals."
- Noelle,
Venture Partner, Advisor Cambridge Frontier Tech Labs, Ambassador Financial Times, Milken YLC, + Mom
Does succeeding at work and home feel out of reach... and sometimes impossible?
If you had your way, you would:
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Advance your career leading others, and share the mental load at home - without guilt or needing to micromanage?
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Succeed at work without having to grind - and have space for family and a life outside of work?
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Be recognized with the title, raise, or respect you deserve to match your contribution and worth?
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Handle tough conversations and challenging personalities without spiraling, shrinking, or second-guessing?
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Stop feeling stretched thin and resentful of work, partners and even your own choices, and wondering when you'll get a break?
Of course you would!
But right now, you're feeling stretched-thin, frustrated, disappointed, and even resentful.
You’re not asking for too much.
You're just not sure how to ask.
And feel nervous.
I used to feel that way -
So I created a "how to ask" process.
It's helped 700+ women become more successful and satisfied, with less sacrifice.
Here's the "how to" you've been looking for...
Power of the Ask Academy
A 4-module, on-demand course for women who are ready to ask for what they need clearly, confidently and convincingly, so they can succeed at work and at home, without sacrificing their dreams or sanity.
You'll learn the same 4-step framework I used to:
- Build a thriving 16-year career at Deloitte designing my roles and schedules
- Motivate and mobilize my teams so well I worked myself out of a role
- Take 3+ weeks vacation every year
- Navigate complex situations and even the trickiest personalities
- Get unheard of meetings and close tough deals easily
- Be supported and (mostly) sane with a constantly shifting schedule with two kids, a husband and a part-time 6-figure business.
This is the same step-by-step framework over 700 women have used to get promotions, raises, better schedules, and appreciation at Salesforce, Google, Nasdaq, numerous venture capital firms and CHIEF to name a few.
Companies pay $6,000 for this exact framework an coaching. You get it as a self-directed course you go through on your own time.
What you'll get inside the Academy
4 Core Modules
Each module teaches you how to overcome one of the 4 biggest obstacles I've seen women face (and I've faced too) when speaking up about their needs and ideas, wanting to be heard, and getting buy-in.
By the end, you’ll have a clear ask, a confident plan, and the exact words to use in your highest‑stakes conversations.
Module 1: Clarity
Get clear on what you want, and what to ask for next
Stop hoping the other person will “see what you want” or your "potential", and define it for yourself. You’ll:
- Decide the specific role, raise, support, appreciation or change you want now
- Turn vague goals (“more leadership,” “more visibility”) into a concrete ask others can actually say yes to
- Use a simple script to start a career path / scope conversation without sounding entitled or ungrateful
Module 2: Conviction
Organize and communicate your thoughts into a clear, concise, and convincing conversation
No more rambling, over‑explaining, or shrinking your ideas. You’ll:
- Organize the tornado of thoughts so into a clear, concise, and compelling script that works for your situation
- Tie your ask to a win-win situation, so it's easier to say "yes" (even if you don't think you can)
- Have a proven structure to plug future conversations into
Module 3: Confidence
Clear the mental blocks and limiting beliefs that sabotage you in the moment
This is when “I know what to say” is finally followed by “I feel comfortable saying it". You’ll:
- Spot and rewrite the beliefs that make you freeze, back down, or over‑apologize
- Learn simple tools to calm your nervous system before and during stressful conversations
- Practice new, grounded responses to common fears like “I don't want to sound pushy?”, “It's not the right time” and "It's never been done before."
Module 4: Finesse
Speak with finesse, instead of passiveness or aggressiveness
You don’t have to choose between being liked and being taken seriously. You’ll:
- Learn body language and tips to improve how your message lands
- Identify and adjust how you're perceived so you're taken seriously and better understood
- Close conversations with clear next steps so things actually change, not just “feel better”
This is the framework the Chief Marketing Officer of a $3.5 Billion company turns to for her most high-stakes conversations.
Bonus Modules
I've included additional skills and strategies to avoid sliding back into old patterns
Bonus Module 1: Avoid falling back into old patterns.
Practical ways to keep using the framework even when work gets busy or stressful.
Bonus Module 2: How to handle "no" - and turn it into "yes"
Strategies to respond to “not now,” “we don’t have budget,” or “we’ll see” so the conversation doesn’t die there.
The steps in Power of the Ask framework are repeatable, which means...
- You have a framework for future challenges, conversations and asks - today it's a raise, tomorrow it's information to get something done, the next day it's to spoken to with respect.
- Your days and interactions are lighter and easier
- You create a new habit of confidently asking for what you need
What's included
The Academy Experience Includes
No guesswork. No fluff.
Just actionable strategies, healing, application + results.
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4 on-demand video modules of me coaching you through each step of the framework
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Personalized prompts and coaching to apply each step to your situation
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Worksheets to build an “ask” as you go through each step
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Scripts to organize your thoughts into a convincing case
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Confidence-building and mindset techniques grounded in NLP and somatics
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Case studies to see how other women created their asks and got results.
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2 bonus modules to navigate "no" and avoid falling back into old patterns
This Academy isn't another thing to do on your to-do list.
This is THE thing that will finally make your career and home life feel doable and aligned.
Companies pay $6,000 for this exact framework and coaching.
Success Stories
These Women Went From Hesitant to Speak Up, to Getting What They Want
" Power of the Ask gave me a system to ask for anything I want - whether its a hire, a promotion, or support from my partner.
I've also leveled up my people and time management skills."
- Bree
Head of Business Development @ Cooley + Mom
"I got my promotion!
Power of the Ask helped me take all the data points that were spinning in my head and place them into an orderly line of strategic supporting facts."
- Meggie,
Director, Venture Capital Services @ Citizens Private Bank, + Mom
"I was the easiest promotion to Director my boss has EVER pushed through.
My promotion came with a 25% increase in pay (the average is 3%)!"
- Brenda,
Director of Client Engagement @ Armanino
Is this you?
Power of the Ask is For Your If:
✔ You’re in a corporate or client serving role - or entrepreneur - and people describe you as “the go to” but you're not getting the titles, business, raises, or visibility
✔ You’re exhausted from doing “A+ work” while watching others who are less qualified move up faster
✔ You avoid or over prepare for big conversations (performance reviews, salary talks, scope changes) and still walk away wishing you’d said more
✔ Your calendar is packed with other people’s priorities and you’re scared to push back in case it makes you “difficult” or "self-ish"
✔ You know you’re meant for more, and tired of feeling frustrated, disappointed and resentful - and ready to create a schedule, role, and rhythm that fits your life.
✔ Want to lead and communicate in a way that gets buy-in at work and at home
✔ Want to thrive in your career and be there for your family
✔ Believe in your potential, but need practical tools (and a mindset shift) to turn that into real results at work and home.
✔ Want to be coached by a Coach who gets you results - and do it within your schedule and budget
This is the same framework and coaching companies pay $6,000 for.
Success Stories
More Transformed Lives
"You streamlined what was in my head into a clear and convincing script I can confidently use to ask for a raise.
And I now have a tool to use over and over again to feel LESS anxious about the conversation - or any difficult conversation."
- Katie,
Chief Marketing Officer @ DRIFT + Mom
"That was incredible! Your system helped me realize my trust issues are really about efficiency - now I can communicate my concerns are specifically about efficiency."
- Anonymous,
Founder & Mom, Power of the Ask workshop participant
This Academy is Different and Gets Results Because
✔ It’s the digital version of a workshop and coaching used with over 700 women at companies like Salesforce, Google, Nasdaq, and CHIEF
✔ It’s the only step-by-step “how to ask” system (not just inspiration)
✔ It gives you exact words to say, not just concepts about confidence
✔ Every step is tailored to your life - at work, at home, in relationships.
✔ You learn a repeatable system that becomes a habit, not just a skill, so you’re prepared for every opportunity.
✔ You see results as you go.
✔ It’s built for how women think, lead, and live using corporate acumen, neurolinguistic programing, somatic practices, and motherhood.
✔ This Academy pays for itself over and over again.
✔ You stop wasting time trying to figure it out alone, Googling scripts, downloading freebie PDFs, or stitching together advice that doesn’t stick.
Ultimately, you’ll have a complete roadmap that actually works.
Relief & Empowerment
Relief & Empowerment:
Imagine What It Will Feel Like When
✔ You walk into a performance review or 1:1 knowing exactly what you’re going to ask for, how to say it, and it's possible for you
✔ You speak up and feel proud instead of replaying every word afterward
✔ You feel truly empowered to navigate your life, relationships, and change without losing yourself
✔ You're having the conversations you previously avoided or struggled through
✔ The life, career, business, and relationships of your dreams is your reality now
✔ You close your laptop at a reasonable hour without guilt and actually have energy for your life
✔ You look back a year from now and see promotions, raises, support. respect, and space you actually asked for
Let me introduce myself
Hi, I'm Jacqueline!
Creator, Power of the Ask Academy
Founder, Soar Coaching & Consulting
Certified Enneagram Coach - Level 2, iEQ9
Former Corporate Leader (Deloitte)
Mom & Wife
My zone of genius is creating simple systems that equip women with self-awareness, direction, confidence, and communication skills so they can navigate almost any situation at work and at home.
My goals is to put a fundamental right back in your hands: to go after and speak up for what your need to be happy, healthy, fulfilled and successful.
I do this using:
- My proprietary Power of the Ask system
- The Integrative Enneagram personality assessment
- Somatic and Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) tools
- 16 years of experience in the corporate and start-up environments, including Deloitte and Disney
I'm not interesting in quick fixes. I'm know for creating long-term transformation by teaching you how to:
- Understand yourself
- Rewire your beliefs and mindset
- Use repeatable systems and strategies to coach yourself
From struggling to soaring
The first half of my 16-year corporate career, I was grinding: overwhelmed, under-appreciated, missing opportunities, burned out, and lonely. I was on the wrong side of the gender pay gap and the mental health crisis, and the more I “succeeded,” the more I sacrificed.
Then I noticed:
- The women who were TRULY thriving and happy "doing it all without doing it all" mastered the 4 core strategies you'll learn in this Academy.
- Those who struggled were using one or two of them at best
Once I mastered the 4 skills in this Academy, everything changed. I was able to:
- Design my own roles to fit my skills and passions
- Negotiate 20% pay raises, extra team members, and virtual working (before it was a common)
- Set my own schedule and actually take vacation
- Take a sabbatical
- Gain respect and influence in rooms full of senior leaders (often all men) and with my own family
- Build a marriage where my needs are met consistently
- Get 60% off my luxury wedding venue and
- Build a “village” of support so I can navigate motherhood without losing myself or my business
Most importantly, I feel confident and equipped to speak up for what I desire and believe, every time it matters.
Now it's your turn to be happy and successful at home and work - with less stress.
THE TRUTH